why do they all fucking hate their partners? why would you willingly date and then fucking marry someone you hate?? am i missing something here???

  • throwawaylemmy [none/use name]
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    4 years ago

    Oh, I don't think it's necessarily a "basis" for the relationship. They just rush into these things because they don't want to "die alone." A lot of them break up and look for the next one. So it's not like it's the end-all-be-all, but with straight folks they find these relationships earlier (in high school) while gay folks start later in life (their 30's or later).

    As shitty as it sounds to put it this way, it's a sort of "biological clock" (ugh) for that feeling.