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  • RNAi [he/him]
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    3 years ago

    "Sex for my students is what porn says it is,"

    Well that's really fucking depressing.

    I don't talk to people but yeah there probably are a lot of poor idiots who thought porn, industrial or homemade, wasn't someone's fantasies but what real people actually do.

      • acealeam [he/him]
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        3 years ago

        I'm not sure. From most stories I've heard, male partners do seem pretty fuckin bad tbf. it's always shocking to me, but it seems prevalent. Like women routinely having to fake orgasms bc theyre afraid to slight their partner.. That is not good!

        • evilgiraffemonkey [he/him]
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          3 years ago

          Oh definitely, they are bad in many ways, I just don't think they think "porn sex = irl sex." The problems are unfortunately probably deeper than that.

        • BruceWillis [none/use name]
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          3 years ago

          That’s like a lateral move from the past when men just didn’t care whether the woman had an orgasm or not.

          Because women can’t find liberation from patriarchy under capitalism, so the liberal feminist attempts to do so always result in lateral moves instead of progress toward liberation.

    • KollontaiWasRight [she/her,they/them]
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      3 years ago

      I'm pretty skeptical that anyone who grows up in this culture actually thinks porn reflects real sex. I spent my entire young adult life being repeatedly told "porn is not reality" in every discussion of sex I encountered, whether or not anyone had brought porn up in the first place. The problem more seems to be people who want to have porn be reality and are angry that it isn't.

      • RNAi [he/him]
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        3 years ago

        Yes, in any case, the last sentence is the problem.