Maybe i'm getting brainworms from twitter and this isn't a real thing and there's nobody defending this, but there is no way in hell hijab is a way to show "modesty in women". I know that there is a lot of westerners who are assholes and prejudiced against muslims and a lot of leftists want to defend them, and you should defend them, but don't do it by defending backwards practices. Hijab objectifies women.
Most of the time, women who wear hijab are pressured into doing it by an external force. It could be their immediate family, their relatives or their neighborhood. This isn't a fucking trope, it's the reality of it. It is very rare to see someone who decides to wear hijab by themselves. Sometimes people who migrate to west choose to keep wearing it as a way to connect themselves back to their home, but it isn't a common reason to wear it.
I'm not saying attack hijab, because it is not your duty to criticize islam as an outsider(and probably you won't have sufficient information nor experience to do so), but when you see some assholes attacking a hijabi woman for her hijab, defend her right to wear what she wants(even if she's forced by her family to wear it), not the hijab.
I think I get where you're coming from. You're not complaining about hijab so much as you're complaining about some non-Muslim leftists or liberals who said they think the hijab is good, actually. You're then arguing that we shouldn't say anything good or bad about it.
I think I agree with you, except I don't know that there is a non-reactionary way to complain about these people. I think you just have to let it be, and leave it for actual Muslims to complain or not complain about.
Yep, exactly
Well as someone who used to be one, i think i have the priviledge to complain about it