• gayhobbes [he/him]
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    4 years ago

    I guess when you call those things embarrassing, you'd have to assume they have a sense of shame. To be embarrassed they have to think what they're doing is worthy of embarrassment. That stuff doesn't tend to make me cringe, it's just pointless to me.

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      4 years ago

      I feel like a lack of self-awareness is kind of a defining feature of what I'm talking about?

      A few other things that I would define as "cringe" specifically in the context of online leftists, which is probably more relevant here:

      • tankie vs anarkiddy shit
      • "look at me owning this chud" posts
      • definitive, scolding proclamations about what other leftists must or must not do (not that this is what you're doing but I have seen some of it here)
      • overuse of Soviet imagery and the word "comrade" (I acknowledge this is a controversial take)
      • aaaaaaadjsf [he/him, comrade/them]
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        4 years ago

        Uhh in my country comrade is a mainstream word used to refer to either party members or close people. Is America really so fucked by anti communist propaganda that the word comrade is considered "cringy"

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          Is America really so fucked by anti communist propaganda that the word comrade is considered “cringy”

          Yes, America is that fucked by anti communist and anti-Russian propaganda. To the vast majority of Americans, the word "comrade" would sound very distinctly and self-consciously Soviet.

          • aaaaaaadjsf [he/him, comrade/them]
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            4 years ago

            Okay as a non American that is really weird, many African countries use the word comrade a lot for example. It has almost no Soviet association here

        • ComradeMikey [he/him]
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          100% its akin to m’lady larpers but instead of medieval chivalry its 1920s revolutionary speak

        • HKBFG [he/him]
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          Is America really so fucked by anti communist propaganda that the word comrade is considered “cringy”

          Yes. Anything left of radlib gets labeled tankie.

      • gayhobbes [he/him]
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        4 years ago

        Don't take this the wrong way but how old are you?

        • okay [none/use name]
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          4 years ago

          Not gonna say my age but probably older than you. The things I listed feel very high-school to me tbh. Maybe it's mean to be annoyed by harmless kids and I don't really care enough to attack people over it but hey you brought it up.

              • gayhobbes [he/him]
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                4 years ago

                You don't have to answer, man, I don't know why this is such a big deal though.

                • okay [none/use name]
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                  4 years ago

                  It doesn't really have anything to do with anything

                  • gayhobbes [he/him]
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                    4 years ago

                    Sure it does. A lot of younger folks are much more susceptible to cringe stuff than older folks. The shit I cared about at 25 isn't anything comparable to now. That's how I can usually tell someone's younger is their fixation on CRINGE.

                    • okay [none/use name]
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                      4 years ago

                      Yeah for sure. Young people are excruciatingly self conscious. I'm not quite sure why you would interpret what I'm saying as a "fixation on cringe"

                      • gayhobbes [he/him]
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                        4 years ago

                        All the stuff you find cringe at least on the left is not terribly cringe, that's why I think you're younger than me. Perhaps in your 20s.

              • steely_its_a_dildo [any]
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                i used to be cagey about my age on the internet before too (40 btw) but that was when I still cared what teens thought of me.