Real seething hatred is usually reserved for people who are or were closer to you. Works the same way for political “family”.

It also works this way for music. Adam Neely has a video about how he can’t stand contemporary Christian worship music because he grew up on gospel. He says that a lot of people hate on Nickelback because they exist in a kind of uncanny valley between rock an country. Me personally, I can’t stand a lot of stuff that combines metalcore or djent guitar tones without various bits and pieces of mumble rap or trap drums. I’ve heard stuff I like and stuff I don’t, but I don’t like it I really don’t like it