But I also wouldn't want to be that guy or have my kids be excluded. And that doesn't even touch how all the other kids will be on tiktok/YouTube/insta and my kid would be weird for not doing that.
Raising a kid seems especially hard nowadays because there's no real agreed upon way to handle the dopamine that is social media. Although maybe I'm just overthinking it because I remember my parents being scared of me playing violent video games (FPSs like COD) which weren't really more harmful than kids playing Mario but should probably be limited so they play with IRL toys that teach motor skills and whatnot.
Its politics aren't super great given how it talks about the CCP but: there's a great movie called "Captain Fantastic" I highly recommend checking out for anyone who's interested in doing this. Raising your children off the grid and/or outside of "the matrix" has its positives and it shows how independent, capable, and educated they are in so many ways...but also it has its limits are there development as human beings. I was home schooled for a period of time and I know personally just how detrimental it can be at formative ages to building friendships and relationships.
Like it or not there's a reason for the "social" in "socialism". Comradery and fraternity just can't be taught from a book.
But I also wouldn’t want to be that guy or have my kids be excluded. And that doesn’t even touch how all the other kids will be on tiktok/YouTube/insta and my kid would be weird for not doing that.
Raising a kid seems especially hard nowadays because there’s no real agreed upon way to handle the dopamine that is social media. Although maybe I’m just overthinking it because I remember my parents being scared of me playing violent video games (FPSs like COD) which weren’t really more harmful than kids playing Mario but should probably be limited so they play with IRL toys that teach motor skills and whatnot.
That's the conundrum...on the one hand even as I guy raised on games I actually do think youtubers and videogames are bad, rot your brain, and the world would be better off if they were abolished...but on the flipside to an extent having your kids not engage in videogames and social media actually makes them the odd one out and impacts their socialization. Really as leftists that's true of most things we deal with. I have a first grader and had to figure out how to address some of his Veterans day assignments recently.
I would hesitate to show my kids Disney princesses because it glorifies monarchy :ira:
Also paw patrol because it glorifies a Blackwater style operation
But I also wouldn't want to be that guy or have my kids be excluded. And that doesn't even touch how all the other kids will be on tiktok/YouTube/insta and my kid would be weird for not doing that.
Raising a kid seems especially hard nowadays because there's no real agreed upon way to handle the dopamine that is social media. Although maybe I'm just overthinking it because I remember my parents being scared of me playing violent video games (FPSs like COD) which weren't really more harmful than kids playing Mario but should probably be limited so they play with IRL toys that teach motor skills and whatnot.
I'm just going to raise kids off the grid if I have them. Being gay means that shit won't happen by accident.
:vivian-shrug:
Its politics aren't super great given how it talks about the CCP but: there's a great movie called "Captain Fantastic" I highly recommend checking out for anyone who's interested in doing this. Raising your children off the grid and/or outside of "the matrix" has its positives and it shows how independent, capable, and educated they are in so many ways...but also it has its limits are there development as human beings. I was home schooled for a period of time and I know personally just how detrimental it can be at formative ages to building friendships and relationships.
Like it or not there's a reason for the "social" in "socialism". Comradery and fraternity just can't be taught from a book.
That's the conundrum...on the one hand even as I guy raised on games I actually do think youtubers and videogames are bad, rot your brain, and the world would be better off if they were abolished...but on the flipside to an extent having your kids not engage in videogames and social media actually makes them the odd one out and impacts their socialization. Really as leftists that's true of most things we deal with. I have a first grader and had to figure out how to address some of his Veterans day assignments recently.
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