• Edelgard [she/her]
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      3 years ago

      I think just like Veganism, I’m will not longer post anything with in post with the words Patriarchy or toxic masculinity.

      Also, I look forward to the 10 page reply to this comment.

      :PIGPOOPBALLS:

      • Edelgard [she/her]
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        3 years ago

        Wait until they hear about vegan feminism.

        :abby-exasperation:

                    • Edelgard [she/her]
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                      3 years ago

                      Nooooooooooo these feminist vegan debate bros I’m totally not misgendering so hostile no tolerance for disagreement smdh

                • Rem [she/her]
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                  3 years ago

                  Where the FUCK is our :stacy-yes: emote :soviet-huff:

                  • Edelgard [she/her]
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                    3 years ago

                    Has anyone submitted one? If you have a pic, I could make it into an emote.

                    • Rem [she/her]
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                      3 years ago

                      There's this one

                      https://images.app.goo.gl/ZdveGymU8cYbyoVe6

                      And then I remember a user here submitted one based on this from tank girl a while back, but I guess it never got put in

                      https://images.app.goo.gl/64yvhbU9At5wd9zq9

            • Edelgard [she/her]
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              3 years ago

              Vegan and feminist, the scariest type of “debate bro”.

              :vegan-edge: :solidarity: :feminism:

          • Edelgard [she/her]
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            3 years ago

            I love Abby, she’s beautiful.

            :soviet-heart:

      • camarade [he/him]
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        3 years ago

        you can interact with some vegans with the best of intentions and a world view that's 99% compatible with theirs and be treated exactly as if you were a reactionary hog because you think putting horses in movies isn't a big deal or something. I imagine some feminists are the same although I have not met any such people myself, online or otherwise.

        honestly I think /u/hopelesscomrade's cocerns are 100% normal, and they haven't said anything problematic in the slightest. I think implying otherwise is total bad faith. with that said they chose the time and place to share them extremely poorly.

        • HodgePodge [love/loves]
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          3 years ago

          If I wanted to not be dunked on by feminists, I would simply not post misogynistic things.

                • Edelgard [she/her]
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                  3 years ago

                  the ways some feminists fail to include men in their version of liberation

                  For what it’s worth, this type of feminist is largely a boogey(wo)man and only found in TERF circles.

                  Wreckers are one thing, but longtime users could probably be given a more understanding explanation, even on touchy topics, without sliding into the realm of allowing misogyny/etc.

                  The info is all here on the site. Women shouldn’t have to explain why they deserve rights to anyone, especially when that person leads with defensiveness.

                  I don’t think you’re implying that or anything, I’m just reiterating that men often feel an entitlement to women’s time.

                  I’m intentionally trying not to respond to the person you’re replying to because I don’t think it will do any good and I’d rather talk about the actual subject.

                    • Edelgard [she/her]
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                      3 years ago

                      You’re doing the work of engaging and educating someone as (presumably) an ally after learning about the topic yourself.

                      That’s exactly how that needs to happen so that folks don’t have to constantly justify why they personally should have rights.

                      At the same time, I’m actively working to have a zero bullshit policy with sexist behavior when it comes at me. I think the combo is effective.

    • replaceable [he/him]
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      3 years ago

      You seem to be confused about why comrade @Edelgard is angry at you so i will explain.
      Your comment implied that you disagree in some way with this meme, since you expect to receive pushback upon voicing these opinions like it had happened in the past.
      Additionally you had voiced your disagreement in a cowardly way, instead of stating it outright, and risking being wrong, you had merely implied it thus maintaining plausible deniability.
      Additionally additionally you preemptively dismissed any pushback to your disagreement, thus demonstrating your unwillingness to be proven wrong and learn.

      • Edelgard [she/her]
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        3 years ago

        Thank you for explaining that to them. I wasn’t about to get into a “show me where I said that” argument lol

        • nohaybanda [he/him]
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          3 years ago

          Wat?

          I understood the comment to mean they're tired of posting about veganism (and feminism) and getting swamped with debate bro replies, so they're self-censoring to avoid all this shit. Which is an incredibly common thing on the Internet.

            • hopelesscomrade [they/them]
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              3 years ago

              Well after everyone showed me how misogynist I was after posting posting poop balls and telling me I'm mysogonic for not wanting to engage with them.

              I never defend myself, because their is no point, so I won't.

              • camarade [he/him]
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                3 years ago

                you have lost the ironic detachment duel. sorry friend

          • LangdonAlger [any]
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            3 years ago

            This is your only good post in this thread, so thanks for that. No further contributions are necessary. See you in the mega

    • FredrikFeuerstein [none/use name]
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      3 years ago

      It's the same shit and not worth talking about with these people. They'd rather blame men than capitalists. We're easier to hurt.