Now that I’ve caught you with the clickbait title,
Basically every post has included some form of toxic self-hate, minus one or two mentioning exercise. While I do like being able to confront these in the first place, the purported goals and name of this community gives people who are giving the exact wrong advice far too much credibility, and the last thing these people need is a comment with the most upbears regurgitating individualistic self-help concepts at them.
If we’re going to keep this sort of community around, I suggest doing some serious research and basing it off of DBT, and integrating serious critiques of CBT style mental healthcare and improvement.
I am just some random nerd who is terrible at self-improvement at general, so I understand taking this with some serious doubt. But I just had to get this off my chest.
Thank you, WithoutFurtherBelay
Very disappointed by the advice I received (90% was telling me to dress better, other 10% was telling me to go out to cliched places) the other day when I both did a bit and also revealed a little kernal about myself and wishing to be romanced/pursued someday. It was more about how docile and boring and unromantic and patriarchal women are here, not how I'm UGLY YOU FUCKS. I DRESS WELL WITH FLOWING, CURLING LOCKS.
Anyway, not mad about it, just disappointed.
it's so funny to be like "I want women to hit on me, but I don't want to change anything about myself and I hate women"
You need to change yourself: i.e. your diaper. Goin' baby mode on my dialectical materialist web forum.
So its fine to hate patriarchal brain worms when men have them but it isn't ok to hate those brain worms in women?
Didnt see the post, but jfc I feel you.
Can't expect people to be good at everything, this is why appointing experts to stuff is good