This is a real question I really like the fantasy setting even the world building but for love of all that is holy why I can I not find anything that isn't horny and gross, I just have fond memory of playing online fantasy games with friends, I feel like i'm losing my mind Is it so much to ask for a good story maybe even romance and but with no silly male power fantasy/ fanservice? :inshallah: I will take any suggestions that meet the non horny/ no useless female characters/ shitty male characters I feel like I'm asking for too much.
For a fantasy world without isekai you have Akatuki no Yona which is top tier though the anime is lacking but the manga has been going for ages and it's just straight up solid. Flip Flappers is sorta isekai but also sorta not, they do dimension hopping and it's wholesome as fuck, though there like one episode where it gets kinda horny. Re:Creators is like a reverse isekai bringing characters from other worlds into ours, it's interesting and not too horny from my memory, but it sorta flubs the ending. For one that recently aired you have Seijo no Maryoku ha Bannou desu where it is isekai and isn't horny, it's primarily aimed at an adult woman audience. It's all for the royalty though since it sorta is a reverse harem though not really. Bofuri isn't particularly horny either but it's a VRMMO that the characters leave from time to time.