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  • crime [she/her, any]
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    3 years ago

    Caveat to this: IMO it's okay to dogwhistle once or twice as a throwaway line or joke, but I wouldn't do it until after the date has been going for awhile, and I wouldn't dwell on it. But if a current event comes up I wouldn't be afraid to quip about capitalism, climate change, eating the rich, etc, especially if they're receptive to it

    • acealeam [he/him]
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      3 years ago

      yea i wouldnt want to waste time dating someone with dissimilar political views

      • crime [she/her, any]
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        3 years ago

        That's my take, def good not to go too hard but if someone's not at least receptive to basic concepts like "capitalism causes harm" then it's not going anywhere

      • DasKarlBarx [he/him,comrade/them]
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        3 years ago

        I think most people are apolitical at this point (but I'm over 30 and haven't been on a first date in like over 8 years so that may have changed).

        But when I was dating if I dropped "kill the whites" on a first date it'd end pretty quick. But if the person seemed alright they'll know you and you can explain how the US is a white supremacist state without much pushback. If that makes sense?

        If you're only into dating people who are politically active though thags a different story.

        • fuckiforgotmypasswor [comrade/them,any]
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          3 years ago

          i was deadset in the fucking sam harris/jordan peterson chud pipeline when i met my partner, a chad marxist who made me realize what a pedantic, pseudointellectual shit i was. i seriously wonder how far gone id be had i never met her. truly blessed

          edit: shit i forgot to mention the whole point of this was to say its ok to talk politics on the first date, you might be pleasantly suprised? who knows