rage-cry I whined about cracker being a slur and those mean ol Hexbears just called me a cracker more instead of debating merage-cry

ppb-gigachad

  • 420blazeit69 [he/him]
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    11 months ago

    There are plenty of people who are interested in socialism, but if they show up to a socialist org and get called a cracker they'll leave. It's an insult.

    We're talking about politics and organizing people, right? To succeed at those you have to get people to like you, or at least not insult them, no matter how right you are. "Anyone who takes issue when I insult them is unreachable" is extremely online.

    • Awoo [she/her]
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      11 months ago

      There are plenty of people who are interested in socialism, but if they show up to a socialist org and get called a cracker they'll leave. It's an insult.

      This also applies to pigpoopballs and you can pry my ppb from my cold dead hands.

        • Awoo [she/her]
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          11 months ago

          I suppose the question might be more: when wouldn't you use PPB? If you're familiar with Huey P. Newton, in an interview he gave the same year he was assassinated (RIP; Rest In Power) he spoke against what he referred to (and what I am suggesting is quite similar) as the dirty word movement. Is it really so difficult to accept one of the consequences of using some language, whatever it is, can be deleterious or on the whole considered by comrades to be less than helpful in specific circumstances?

          I have a carrot and stick philosophy to brainworms, if I see a person as genuinely potentially possible to talk to and turn then I engage with them in as friendly a way as I can possibly muster - earnestly demonstrating that I'm educated and worth listening to and a potential source of learning.

          If however they are clearly not going to allow that to happen I use the stick.

          My interaction with this person is not the last ever interaction this person will have with a communist. They will have others in future, and I prefer to give them the stick to deter behaviour they demonstrated in this conversation so that there is a greater chance of them engaging in a better way for a future comrade. I don't view interactions in a vacuum, I view things hollistically. The general intent being that having an incredibly negative experience as a result of the way they engaged me results in them engaging with someone else in a different way.

          • BurgerPunk [he/him, comrade/them]
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            11 months ago

            I prefer to give them the stick to deter behaviour they demonstrated in this conversation so that there is a greater chance of them engaging in a better way for a future comrade.

            That's a great strategy, and way to think about interacting with people.

            The idea that we have to only use the carrot in all situations because that is the sole interaction that will determine whether the other person becomes a comrade or a fascist, is, besides being silly, a lot of pressure to place on an individual.

            • Awoo [she/her]
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              11 months ago

              It's also entirely unrealistic. Like, do people only meet nice liberals? Nice fascists? Is each interaction people have with them something you only view in a vacuum?

              The decision to join a political camp is not determined by how nice your interactions with the people in that camp are, but by how significant their political positions resonate with your lived experiences. The biggest barrier, for communists, is that anticommunism and mccarthyism closes people off to even considering our political points. The biggest and most important thing then is to develop a strategy for the destruction of that barrier. Once you destroy that barrier you gain access to a person's mind. Without the destruction of that barrier you are literally wasting your time.

              And this is generally what informs my somewhat rough behaviour with people when I recognise they have that barrier up and are not doing anything to try and break it. I can't break it for them, they have to want to break it themselves. The only way I have to encourage them to break that barrier down is to give them a god awful experience because of its existence, and to make it very clear that it's because they have that barrier up that they're getting this awful experience. This, I then hope, results in them taking a different approach to the next comrade they come across. Or it might even be me next time, and my completely different attitude and behaviour with them because they don't have the barrier up results in reinforcing that they lower it.

    • GarbageShoot [he/him]
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      11 months ago

      There are plenty of people who are interested in socialism, but if they show up to a socialist org and get called a cracker they'll leave. It's an insult.

      We aren't a fucking org. No one is joining an org to come in and start swinging minute 1 about how akshually Stalin was Hitler unless they are joining an org that holds that stance to begin with. If someone does join an ML org and do that, they get what they fucking deserve.

      But we are not an org, and them coming into some thread to take shots does not represent remotely the same opportunity to us that a new member does to an organizer.

      • 420blazeit69 [he/him]
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        11 months ago

        I didn't say we're an org, and I didn't say this asshole shouldn't have been banned.

        I said allowing race-based insults, even those directed at white people, is extremely online behavior. You can see this because it's not tolerated in person.

        • GarbageShoot [he/him]
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          11 months ago

          It's not tolerated in person with an org member. If you're at a counterprotest or whatever and a PoC comrade calls a fascist on the other side of the line a cracker, there typically won't be a disciplinary hearing over it. Your comment is useless equivocating because it completely obscures the variety of different group dynamics that appear in person. It's not as though "cracker" was first said to a white person over AOL in the 90s.

          • 420blazeit69 [he/him]
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            11 months ago

            Cracker is used on here all the time; it's not exclusively directed at reactionaries. And of course one of the big problems with race-based insults (or insults based on any other group characteristic) is that even if the intent is only to insult someone deserving of insult, comrades who are also in the group hear it, too.

            • GarbageShoot [he/him]
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              11 months ago

              I'm white and getting offended at "cracker" is comical. Furthermore, even if it's not exclusively directed at reactionaries, you are in essence conceding that the hypothetical you posed at the start is simply worthless.

              • 420blazeit69 [he/him]
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                11 months ago

                "Why would anyone feel insulted by my insult I'm using to rip on them" is not convincing. Sure, it has maybe the same sting as calling someone an asshole, but when someone is checking a place out, that's not going to help them stick around. If someone kept calling other comrades assholes we'd tell them to knock if off.

                the hypothetical you posed at the start

                I didn't pose any hypothetical, I said casually insulting white people based on their race is not tolerated in any real life org. It's extremely online.

                • GarbageShoot [he/him]
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                  11 months ago

                  You are by this point correcting me because you are completely failing to follow the conversational thread.

                  "Why would anyone feel insulted by my insult I'm using to rip on them" is not convincing.

                  Remember the context, that being "but if someone calls a white fash a cracker, a white comrade's feelings are hurt" which means that the person who I think is being ridiculous is not the person actually being targeted with the insult.

                  I didn't pose any hypothetical

                  Do you not know that conditional statements are usually hypotheticals?

                  There are plenty of people who are interested in socialism, but if they show up to a socialist org and get called a cracker they'll leave. It's an insult.

                  That bold part is a hypothetical situation

                  You can't be this sniveling and then completely fail to follow the conversation at a rudimentary level on top of correcting others on it, it's just insufferable. I doubt it's even a language issue because people speaking a second language usually have the good sense or conscientiousness to check if they are missing something should they have an understanding so at odds with who they are speaking to.

                  • 420blazeit69 [he/him]
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                    11 months ago

                    You can't be this sniveling

                    PIGPOOPBALLS

                    You are extremely online if you don't see how insulting members of your group, then insulting them again if they take issue, is bad for the group. No amount of morshupls will change that.

        • BurgerPunk [he/him, comrade/them]
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          11 months ago

          There are plenty of people who are interested in socialism, but if they show up to a socialist org and get called a cracker they'll leave

          I don't think that's a real scenario that's worth worrying about. Where are these socialist orgs that these people are going to show up at and be called crackers right away? Its silly. That's why I'm making light of it, because this is just an unserious concern

          • Great_Leader_Is_Dead
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            11 months ago

            Where are these socialist orgs that these people are going to show up at and be called crackers right away?

            There are some pretty weird Maoist groups out there...

          • blakeus12 [he/him]
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            11 months ago

            that's absolutely true, but im pretty sure the commenter was talking about the site

            • nohaybanda [he/him]
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              11 months ago

              Let’s be real, we do no organising here. And that’s fine, this place is mostly a place to unwind and feel sane in a world of darkest reaction.

          • 420blazeit69 [he/him]
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            11 months ago

            It doesn't happen in real life because in person everyone understands that you don't insult people you're trying to work with.

            "I can't imagine people saying this face-to-face" is a sign that we should ask why we're saying it at all.

              • 420blazeit69 [he/him]
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                11 months ago

                because in person everyone understands that you don't insult people you're trying to work with

                  • 420blazeit69 [he/him]
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                    11 months ago

                    Allowing casual race-based insults is bad, even if they're directed at white people. We know this is bad because no significant in-person org allows it. Allowing it here is the definition of extremely online behavior.

            • GarbageShoot [he/him]
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              11 months ago

              (unless thought experiments are bourgeois decadence, if so I will show myself out...)

              No, but they can very rapidly fall into idealist question-begging, though it is worth noting that the prompt you are giving this comparison to is not clear enough to be a useful thought experiment even by liberal standards. It is just a hazy hypothetical.

            • BurgerPunk [he/him, comrade/them]
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              11 months ago

              (unless thought experiments are bourgeois decadence, if so I will show myself out...)

              I got some bad news for you there lol