Oh, I don't have a solution for gaining social purchase and finding love. It's completely miserable to be excluded from a love life and I really don't mean to say it's simply an aw shucks thing. It's debilitating to be excluded from one of the primary human experiences. There really isn't a solution other than simply recognizing the situation you're in and hoping for the best. There's dating advice, but I'm the wrong person there. The solution certainly isn't applying some completely awful evolutionary psychology mumbo jumbo and hating women.

At best I can offer you an analysis that says with increasing concentration of capital and less time to ourselves, we're losing a social dimension and becoming lonelier, which certainly can't help. Falling in love or simply having sex usually do come down to a matter of complete luck though. There are things that can increase your chances, like meeting a lot of people, but there isn't a surefire way of simply making people like you.

Incels have decided there are ways to make people like you and it involves horse shit like skull shape, magic pickup lines, and walking in certain ways.

I don't know you at all, but I hope your life becomes less stressful soon. You can DM me to talk whenever you like. I'm often stressed out too, but I can at least try to offer someone to talk to.