Eh, my concern was more about being a relationship where he would get murdered lol, the idea of like being home and being informed by word of mouth (since he was DL) and basically having to mourn from a distance while also being a homewrecker was not appealing to me.

He legit offered multiple times to go legit and leave his wife/kids but I was like: "yes to the former, no to the latter" but I knew in my heart of hearts he wasn't serious about the former.