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I accidentally deleted a song off of my phone yesterday.
It wasn't an especially important song to me, but I bought it on iTunes, and Apple won't let me redownload it to my phone without an Apple Music subscription :agony-yehaw:
Man I hate being allergic to work. I know I'm not just "lazy" but so what when parents, doctors, and pretty much everyone else aren't going to help or care if you can't function as "normal". Fucking hate the antiwork reddit because I don't want to be lumped in to that, I'm not some asshole that wants UBI while the global south continues to be exploited, I just want some damn help but you can't get any help here. So I end up feeling like my problems don't matter or that I should be ashamed to be this way because I'm a white dude in the first world; there are people who would literally kill to be in my position, yet I still get too depressed to get out of bed and too anxious to go to the store when I need food.
https://chadd.org/for-adults/relationships-social-skills/
I went undiagnosed and untreated throughout my childhood despite something very obviously being wrong. I think my parents subscribed to the "ADHD is just an excuse to medicate kids" way of thinking. Now as an adult I read shit like this and it's just so abundantly clear why I can't socialize or maintain relationships to save my life. :doomjak:
Really wish there was a ND dating app :( I'm just now learning why some of my previous dates I got on tinder/bumble didn't work out
I guess it's no concidence that all my friends irl are neurodivergent. I'm guessing the same would have to apply (or it'd be easier) for relationships as well
Have a psych appointment today for the first time ever. My previous doctor who I'd been getting meds from retired/moved (not sure which) at the end of 2021, so I've been left without someone to prescribe me meds for the past 4 months. I still have some left, though I've only taken one in the past 2 months, and that was so I could focus on filing out forms for the psych I have an appointment with. Sucks that I've been without meds for so long, but hopefully that'll be fixed soon :inshallah:
Also, no meds is part of the reason I haven't updated the monthly mega-thread, which is probably something I should get around to doing since it's like 3 months old now lol.