A while back there was a thread about eliminating intelligence-based insults from our vocab. Words like "Dumb", "stupid", etc.
https://hexbear.net/post/15636
My gut instinct to this was to get angry, and berate the OP u/QuillQuote for his ideas. I insulted him, I called him dumb, and when he pm'd me, I dismissed all his arguments and called him dumb again. Then he told me to go fuck myself and I told him I would masturbate later
Since then I actually thought a little about the issue and I began to see their point. An intelligence-based insult is fundamentally wrong, because it concerns something that cannot be controlled.
Insults about race, gender, and sexuality are all de facto verboten here because they target traits that can't be controlled--and I agree.
Intelligence can't be controlled either. And intelligence is actually one of the most disadvantaging traits to be handicapped by. Ditto for appearance.
Likewise, AGE cannot be controlled either, you only age in one direction and that's it. If I was 55, there's nothing I can do to be more like a 30 year old. MOREOVER, some people actually have inborn disabilities that make them age faster, with some 10 year old children having the biological age of a 40 year old adult.
So I'm making the proposition that we should attempt to eliminate these words from our arsenal of insults. Words like "dumb", "stupid", "boomer", "ugly", "short", are all words that target people on traits that they cannot control, and worse, they insult other bystanders in the process who may have committed no offense.
In fact, I called someone a boomer jokingly just a few minutes ago. That was the trigger that made me think about this. I apologize if my words hurt anyone.
After what happened when I spoke up last time and some reactions to this post, that's a pretty big ask. I don't think most people get just how hard it is to talk about this stuff when the typical reaction to it is what it has been. I've talked to a lot of my friends and comrades about what happened, and the chilling effect is very real, and very very disheartening
I'd never ask one of my nd comrades to voice their concern if it could get them dogpiled and invalidated en masse.
And I'll point out again that this isn't even in reference to people using intelligence based insults, but how they react to the mere suggestion of avoiding it on a personal level.
Yeah, there’s been some reactionary elements here, even if the overall response has come out positive. And this is probably one of the more progressive places outside of explicitly ND spaces, which only says how bad the reaction must be elsewhere.
I’m more saying, now that you’ve raised intelligence-based stuff, I’ll try to avoid those.