This. It’s literally state-sanctioned kidnapping. And sometimes it’s a net good. But it’s never nonviolent and never not traumatic. The state’s doing it either way, so I still think it’s a good thing to open a foster home if someone has the capacity, but still. It props up and justifies the fact that families need to live in poverty and without mental health services in the first place.
You can say that about every single baby born. And “just” is doing a lot of heavy lifting there
womb rental for gene freaks
This is what I’m talking about. I have a coworker who had her sister surrogate for her and just paid her medical costs. Is that “womb rental”? Is she a “gene freak”?
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This. It’s literally state-sanctioned kidnapping. And sometimes it’s a net good. But it’s never nonviolent and never not traumatic. The state’s doing it either way, so I still think it’s a good thing to open a foster home if someone has the capacity, but still. It props up and justifies the fact that families need to live in poverty and without mental health services in the first place.
there are also orphans in the system
You can say that about every single baby born. And “just” is doing a lot of heavy lifting there
This is what I’m talking about. I have a coworker who had her sister surrogate for her and just paid her medical costs. Is that “womb rental”? Is she a “gene freak”?
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I agree with the British law on it in that paying any money other than the basic costs for it should be illegal. so it''s only allowed as a favour
That makes sense to me. Shouldn’t be commodified
yeah it's a system ripe for abuse but it's not inherent