I'm cis het trash so I don't know shit, but every observation I've ever had of any TERF is that it's a hate movement larping idpol as a mask. They're uncomfortable as Liberals with openly expressed bigotry, so they cloak it in passive aggressive horseshit.
If you and your partner(s) are happy, that's all that matters.
If anyone cares beyond that, it's probably a bad faith bigoted attack wearing a concern troll mask.
I'm cis het trash so I don't know shit, but every observation I've ever had of any TERF is that it's a hate movement larping idpol as a mask. They're uncomfortable as Liberals with openly expressed bigotry, so they cloak it in passive aggressive horseshit.
If you and your partner(s) are happy, that's all that matters.
If anyone cares beyond that, it's probably a bad faith bigoted attack wearing a concern troll mask.
Normal people mind their own business.