My FWB started a new dating account app just for casual sex/one night stands/casual sexting and set the age range as 18-35. They’re 26 years old.

Is it creepy/predatory to potentially have a one night stand/casual sex(ting) with someone as young as 18 at that age? I figured not since they’re not looking for anything long-term or romantic, but I’m on the spectrum so I’m really not good at assessing this kind of stuff in relationships.

  • Mother [any]
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    3 years ago

    18 year olds look like kids to me and did when I was 25 too

    It’s weird to try to fuck w someone that can’t even drink at that age imo. Especially bc at 25 people are still young hotties. At the same time he set the upper threshold to 35 so it seems to me like it’s just a numbers game :shrug-outta-hecks:

    • L183R4L [any]
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      3 years ago

      The ole half plus 7 puts 35 as not creepy for a 26yo but 18 as creepy. As dumb as a lot of "dating rules" are I think that one is pretty decent as what is "acceptable"

    • GhostofKiev [none/use name]
      hexagon
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      3 years ago

      I asked them about it and they pretty much were just like "yeah, I would never specifically seek out someone that young but if they were hot and interested I'd do it."

      I would unquestionably be against it if they specifically set it to just 18-19 as the maximum.

    • alexandra_kollontai [she/her]
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      3 years ago

      It’s weird to try to fuck w someone that can’t even drink at that age imo

      awwh, try living in a free country next time