My FWB started a new dating account app just for casual sex/one night stands/casual sexting and set the age range as 18-35. They’re 26 years old.
Is it creepy/predatory to potentially have a one night stand/casual sex(ting) with someone as young as 18 at that age? I figured not since they’re not looking for anything long-term or romantic, but I’m on the spectrum so I’m really not good at assessing this kind of stuff in relationships.
that was like my response until i realized like “holy shit i did that exact fucking thing” i was in a sober living and some girl twice my age (because i was 18) persuaded me to walk to the cemetery wjth her..she went off with this younger guy who was 20? 21, 22? i fucked the older guy, he was definitely 35 or older and yeah that age gap is like, insane..…. but he did set an ok precedent in terms of like what i should expect from other people i think . he pulled out a condom without even asking (which is basically something i always, always end up having to do….its insane) and asked me repeatedly to stop or not (looking back 5 whole years later i feel like he was the uncomfortable party, maybe?)
but because it was in a graveyard , this is probably the source of all the bad things that have happened to me since thn……big oof