My FWB started a new dating account app just for casual sex/one night stands/casual sexting and set the age range as 18-35. They’re 26 years old.

Is it creepy/predatory to potentially have a one night stand/casual sex(ting) with someone as young as 18 at that age? I figured not since they’re not looking for anything long-term or romantic, but I’m on the spectrum so I’m really not good at assessing this kind of stuff in relationships.

  • GhostofKiev [none/use name]
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    3 years ago

    I just don't want to overstep my boundaries or overreact if they're not doing anything wrong, and I don't really have anyone else to talk to about things this intimate. These things can be really hard when you're neurodivergent.

      • GhostofKiev [none/use name]
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        3 years ago

        I did bring it up to them and they basically just said they don't specifically want to seek out anything sexual with an 18 year old, but they're just down for anyone 18+, hence the 18-35 range they put. So basically just "I'm not particularly attracted to people that young but if they're hot and willing, sure" and that it was okay since it was basically just NSA sex and short-term casual flings, meaning the power imbalances aren't as strong as in a long-term relationship. I have no idea whether that would be true in practice, since I've never done it before.