i share a house with 3 guys and i can tell the one has come home because when he takes off his workboots the entire house smells like rotting dogshit in an abandoned waste treatment facility for 3 hr+ how do i broach this subject with him cause im in a room complete opposite of his and it eventually wafts in here somehow and idk how to stop it i light candles and spray good smelling shit into the air but it is a losing battle he works really hard and i dont want to bother him but fuck man it stinks so bad any tips and tricks that u could share with me ? thanks :
I think that people living together should have an outside-ish space for shoes. I keep mine right inside the front door, far away from my kitchen and sleep areas.
Also being direct is totally fine. It's an awesome quality, but you're probably a too nice person in many situations.