Its a marker of how manipulative it is. Her husband was bastard by the end, never did anything, bleed money from every scam out there. They separated a few months before it happened. She felt so guilty, talked about how she broke she broke her promise to god when she stopped loving him. All this misery just so shity men can treat their wives like property and shity bosses can treat their employees like property and shity cops can treat us like property. Because they know some people will rack themselves with guilt for the impropriety of seeing any other possibility, that god will punish them for wanting their lives to be better.