Where I live, even if it's been misogynistically loaded by :reddit-logo: and related communities, "Karens" are very real, both in my neighborhood and where I go to get groceries. They argue, a lot, and are especially confrontational and condescending with employees. They will fight and demand a manager over a difference in cents or a matter of months on an expired coupon, and snap their fingers to get people's attention, lick fingers when handling their money as a performative thing they learned from TV, and it isn't just a women thing. For lack of an agreed-upon term, "Henrys" are roughly the same thing but dress like 55+ year old children, wear flip-flops and cargo shorts and have goatees to go with their thumb heads, and have more direct threats of violence toward employees for the same setbacks.

The other stereotype involves self-described libertarians. I knew dozens, in fact scores, during college, and many never grew out of it. Speaking of growing up, almost every single one of them at some point argued with me, usually unprompted, that age of consent laws are "a social construct" and that "a lot of teenagers, and even children" (their words not mine :desolate: ) "are easily as logical and capable of consent as adults." Lots of them cited how child marriage is common and normal or even that they had ancestors that had child marriages and dared me to say their ancestors were pedophiles (in one case, I did dare say that. Yes, there was a fight). They didn't agree on everything but their desire to violate teenagers was a consistent trait. :epstein:

  • PapaEmeritusIII [any]
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    2 years ago

    Techbros truly are awful to spend any amount of time with. Not just any guy that’s into tech, I’m talking about a specific kind of guy who loves startup culture, thinks everyone should be working 72+ hour weeks for the hustlegrind, and claims to be socially progressive while being blind to his own sexism. Funny thing is, all the ones I’ve interacted with have been startlingly incompetent.

    Sorta ties in with the “live your life with the confidence of a mediocre white guy” stereotype. I’ve worked with a lot of white guys, and the egotistical ones usually are pretty mediocre. The competent ones are usually humble and kind.

    • UlyssesT [he/him]
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      2 years ago

      The techbros I've known (and I've known a lot because of the area I went to college in) were almost always "pro sex" and "sexually open minded" as their own descriptors, but what that meant was "wants to have sex and specifically do BDSM things and wants women to make out in front of him but doesn't want to see any icky gay stuff or for that matter receive anything he wants to dish out."

      That tracks with their cult leaders' preoccupation with drugging and hobbyist mind control experiments on "pets."

      https://www.vanityfair.com/news/2018/01/brotopia-silicon-valley-secretive-orgiastic-inner-sanctum

        • swampfox [none/use name]
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          2 years ago

          I enjoyed it but it wasn't fucked up enough for my ex, or something.

          So I showed her what's what by accelerating my alcoholism and being sad.

      • Trouble [she/her]
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        2 years ago

        Guy who calls himself "sex positive" to mean "horny and doesn't respect boundaries" is something I've seen entirely too many times

      • rubpoll [she/her]
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        2 years ago

        "Jim is a lazy worker. I can spend all day working on something that he'll just wrap up in an hour."

        • AcidSmiley [she/her]
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          2 years ago

          i've heard that among engineers, it's generally assumed that you fucked up somehow if you're working overtime.

    • JoesFrackinJack [he/him]
      cake
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      2 years ago

      I live in the bay area and have ran into a lot of them. They love to talk about investing, 401ks, Roth IRAs and stock stuff. It's like half their personality is about money

      • blobjim [he/him]
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        2 years ago

        That's probably A LOT of well-off young people, not just in tech.

        • JoesFrackinJack [he/him]
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          2 years ago

          Probably right lol, I don't meet too many rich people but I'd say tech workers are like the vast majority of rich people I meet here so I easily conflated the two I guess haha

    • SadStruggle92 [none/use name]
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      2 years ago

      Sorta ties in with the “live your life with the confidence of a mediocre white guy” stereotype... The competent ones are usually humble and kind.

      Damn, I'm none of these things. :felix-trash: