One of them is offering reciepts to people, but is this a trap/inappropriate to ask for if I just know them from the same spaces and aren't really friends with them?
I am bad at navigating these things, even outside the whole detecting DARVO thing
One of them is offering reciepts to people, but is this a trap/inappropriate to ask for if I just know them from the same spaces and aren't really friends with them?
I am bad at navigating these things, even outside the whole detecting DARVO thing
Various cases:
You're close enough to the involved to know who's the victim. You should've already sat them down and convinced them to get themselves out, and be helping them settle into a more healthy space.
You're close enough to the involved to know who should be close enough for case 1. Find that person, double check that they're doing their part, and follow their lead.
You're not close to any of these people. Organize two normal, healthy community events, and invite different sides to each. This is the most good you can do without knowing wtf is going on.
You're not close enough to any of these people that you could invite them to things. Go outside.
Case 3 or 4, but Kiwifarm or 4chan has picked a side. That side is in the wrong. Invite the other side to a quiet event with as little public internet exposure as possible.