• sammer510 [none/use name]
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    2 years ago

    Jokes on her she forgot guys with avoidant personalities who end up in relationships they don't want to be in because they don't know how to say no to people

    • aaaaaaadjsf [he/him, comrade/them]
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      2 years ago

      I know a couple like this. They ended up taking breaks from each other and keep getting back together. The relationship is very one sided feelings wise.

      :deeper-sadness:

      • sammer510 [none/use name]
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        2 years ago

        Kinda how I am. It pains me to say it but my girlfriend is much more into me than I am into her but telling her would break her heart and I worry she'd go back to self harming. Love living with avoidant personality disorder 👌

          • sammer510 [none/use name]
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            2 years ago

            Yeah I've been trying substance abuse but it's becoming less and less effective. Wish therapy wasn't so hard

      • sammer510 [none/use name]
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        2 years ago

        Trying to have this not become me. My partner really wants to get married and I just... I don't know what I'm gonna do

        • ComradeLove [he/him, comrade/them]
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          2 years ago

          Maybe it could have gone another way, but my advice would be you should at least be pretty sure its what you want to do before you go through with it. I just freaking knew I shouldn't be doing it, but I didn't know its ok to rock the boat. The thing that made it more complicated in the long run was she was pregnant a month after we got married.