• stolase [undecided]
    hexagon
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    2 years ago

    in case it means anything, i think the woman in the OP is waaaaaay too picky and you're probably cool

    • Liberalism [he/him,they/them]
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      2 years ago

      Whether she's too picky depends on what "red flag" means imo, like some people use it to mean caution and some people use it to mean instant non starter.

      Of course if it's the latter that's still totally within her rights, just outside the norm.

      • stolase [undecided]
        hexagon
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        2 years ago

        i think "too picky" shouldn't be taken as a moral criticism, honestly. They're definitely within their rights to be as picky as they want. The only issue is that they might make themselves miserable in the process.