"If you don't like abortion then don't get one"

This will not convince anyone who's pro-life because they believe abortion is the same as murder. To them it's like saying "if you don't like murdering people then just don't do it".

"If you're a man then just shut up about abortion"

AFAIK, just about every opinion poll that's ever asked the public about abortion has found that men are not really much more anti-abortion than women are. If there is a gender gap, it's like 5 percentage points or less. I think I've even seen one or two polls that show women to be more pro-life than men (but again, not by a big margin). So if there's not a big gender gap on abortion then I don't really see how this talking point is helpful.
Seems to me that the most likely consequence of this argument is it will discourage pro-choice men from participating in the cause & offering support.

(also, fwiw, it's cissexist; trans men exist and can get pregnant)

“Making abortion illegal will not decrease how often abortion happens; it will only drive it underground and make it less safe.”

I don't think this is a good argument. I have a few reasons why:

  1. Banning abortion probably will indeed decrease how often abortion happens. After all, bans tend to be fairly effective at getting people to not do things. Just as one example: there are a lot of semi-automatic firearms in the US, but not nearly as many fully automatic firearms. Why? Probably because fully automatic firearms are banned. I don't see why the same wouldn't happen with abortion.
  2. If you want another example that is more directly related to abortion: during the Roe era, red states developed a tactic of putting onerous and extremely contrived rules on abortion providers, with the unstated goal of getting those abortion providers to shut down. And it worked. A lot of abortion providers in red states shut down because they couldn't comply with these ridiculous and obviously contrived regulations. Statistics bear out that red states have a lower rate of abortion than blue states. If contrived targeted regulations were effective at reducing abortion, then an outright ban probably would be too.
  3. A lot of the time when this argument is made, it's articulated in a way that seems to concede the idea that decreasing the recurrence of abortion would be a good thing, and I'm not sure why we on the pro-choice side should concede that.

"If abortion is murder, then every time a man masturbates is genocide, and every time a woman menstruates is murder"

Most pro-life people are smart enough to know the difference between a gamete and a zygote, so this doesn't convince anyone.

"They're not pro-life, they're just pro-birth" (sometimes phrased as "pro-forced-birth")

Usually this isn't actually an argument for legal abortion, it's just a reference to the fact that conservatives generally oppose social safety nets. Which, yeah, it is shitty of them that they want to force (often poor) people to have children but don't care much about the welfare of those children once they are born... but there's no inconsistency there. It's not a hypocritical position, just a very cruel one. So we shouldn't act like this is some amazing "gotcha" moment.

"If we're gonna ban abortion then how about we force men to start paying child support as soon as the woman gets pregnant"

This is just not an effective argument. Most anti-abortion people would be just fine with this idea. They are more than happy to force their "family values" on men as well as women.
You wouldn't be able to tell from liberal/leftist conversations, but conservatives resent liberal, non-religious, sexually promiscuous men to a similar degree as they resent liberal, non-religious, sexually promiscuous women.

"They're just anti-woman/they just want to control women"

I think there's some truth to this one (conservatives definitely harbor resentment towards sexual activity & expression that they perceive as un-Christian) but ultimately I don't think this is the best argument to use. I don't think that misogyny is really what motivates them. I think they actually are convinced that a just-fertilized zygote is a fully formed person with a soul and a mind and a conscience.

"If men could get pregnant, then there would be abortion clinics on every corner"

  1. As stated before, trans men exist and can get pregnant
  2. As stated before, there is not really much of a gender gap on abortion, and it is not helpful to imply that there is.

So. What arguments should pro-choice people use?

In my opinion, the abortion issue really just comes down to two main questions:

  1. Is an embryo/fetus a person?
  2. If it is a person, does that mean it has a right to continue growing in its mother's birth parent's (I guess that's the more correct term) uterus?

And our answers to those questions should be as follows:

  1. No, it is not a person. (At least, not until it's developed enough to survive outside the womb - I'm not sure what I think about this exactly)
  2. No, it does not have a right to use and benefit from another person's organs

That's really all that we need to say about it, although I have a couple of extraneous thoughts below that might also be useful:

  • An embryo/fetus is not a person. It has some of the characteristics of a person, but not all of them. It cannot survive outside the womb because its organs aren't developed enough. Until about 24 weeks of gestation, it can't even feel pain because its nervous system isn't sufficiently developed. It is not sentient. It cannot perceive itself or its environment. It does not have subjective experiences. If it isn't sentient, then it has no interests to protect (which, when you think about it, is basically what "rights" are).
  • an abortion is generally defined as "the termination of a pregnancy via the removal or expulsion of an embryo or fetus from the uterus". Notice here that it is NOT defined as "the destruction of the embryo/fetus" or "the death of the embryo/fetus". It is merely the "removal or expulsion". This is why miscarriages are considered by medical professionals to be a type of abortion - specifically they are a "spontaneous abortion". So, even if one considers an embryo/fetus to be a person, an abortion is not actually an act of killing that "person", it is just the act of removing that "person" from the uterus. If the embryo/fetus dies after it has been removed from the uterus, that is a separate event and it is not the doing of the (formerly) pregnant person.
  • PapaEmeritusIII [any]
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    2 years ago

    Urgh, I hate this. I know you mean well OP, but this retreat into debate-brained detachment comes across as very, for lack of a better way of phrasing it, masturbatory.

    As other commenters have said, public opinion is already on the pro-choice side. At this point it’s a matter of power and who wields it. As “fun” as it is to construct a theoretically impressive argument, it doesn’t actually help. It actually feels kinda callous.

    I think Malagueta articulated this feeling very well on another post, so I’ll link her comment here: https://hexbear.net/post/204198/comment/2573757

    It’s more thought terminating to retreat into intellectualism and an obsession with definitions. When Mao wrote about opposing “book worship” he was talking about this shit

    https://www.marxists.org/reference/archive/mao/selected-works/volume-6/mswv6_11.htm

    There is a certain type of privileged liberalism that prides itself on viewing the struggles of others as some kind of an intellectual curiosity they can play with through their detachment. It is inhumane, it is arrogant, and it is beneath the merits of a good socialist.

    Many people in privileged and/or petite bourgeoisie comforts are socialized to behave this way because it neutralizes them. They do the work of alienating themselves from others for the capitalist class.

    This is why discussions affecting a group of people must be centered on and led by those people. You wrote tomes here abstracting instead of bothering to listen to people who can get pregnant. Abortion is a sudoku puzzle for you and it is matter of forced birth and slavery for us.

    To be clear, this post is not as bad as the one Malagueta was responding to. Not even close. But the overall message in her comment still applies here, I think. Just less vehemently, perhaps.

    • RonJeremyCorbyn [none/use name]
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      2 years ago

      the notion that is there is a set of socialist values and policy prescriptions, which are self-evident and that don't require intellectual justification is absurd, unless you can enumerate all those values and policies and how they should be applied in every case.

      and more, it's disingenuous to suggest that this sort of inquiry or practice (of intellectual discussion) is not only valueless, but actively pernicious. all of this posting, on the site, especially the affective "rah rah rah" posting which requires no serious engagement, is just as meaningless and valueless; all of it comes with the opportunity cost of doing anything else which might better be considered praxis.

      there's value in argument and discussion, and i'm tired of pretending there isn't just because some members of this board are too intellectually lazy to do so. and i'm tired that this laziness is couched in the self-righteous patina of listening to lived experience. there are plenty of unborn people (who will suffer in the future at the hands of climate change) who can't share their lived experiences with us; there are likely plenty of neuroatypical people who can't share their lived experience with us; there are plenty of animals and creatures which can't share their lived experience with us. and yet, we (try to)manage to give these persons and possible persons and non-persons-but-still-living-creatures due moral consideration. while the Good Socialists may have all the proper opinions and considerations embedded in them from the womb, for many of us, this comes through argument and discussion with interested and empathic comrades.

      • PapaEmeritusIII [any]
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        2 years ago

        Omg you’re so right, I’m sorry for being upset. I can be so intellectually lazy sometimes. Next time I’ll shut up so my empathic comrades can intellectually justify my human rights in peace without my stupid feelings getting in the way :)

      • StewartCopelandsDad [he/him]
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        2 years ago

        I think this is a really good comment. But I don't think it applies to this post, which assumes* that the socialist position is pro-abortion and is looking for the most effective argument to convince anti-abortion people. Nobody here is really disagreeing about abortion as an issue; we don't need intellectual discussion to figure out whether it should be a socialist policy prescription. I think the discussion we need is "is debate with opponents of abortion useful" and not on the merits of specific arguments.

        *could be a smart anti-abortion poster trying to get socialists to shit on him by arguing against abortion.

    • InsideOutsideCatside [they/them]
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      2 years ago

      At this point it’s a matter of power and who wields it.

      Tbh that supports the assertion that these are ultimately unhelpful arguments, since they inevitably do not matter in influencing policy