I guess my point was that the dude is a total chud.

I can tell you from personal experience being raised by a right wing asshole father is damaging.

I don’t think he is irredeemable and want to arm myself with arguments to at bare minimum reduce his transphobia so that at least one member of the future generation is less damaged.

I recognize how this stance could be arrogant or nosy, but I’m not exactly in position where I have many chances to improve….anything. Idk maybe despair is exacerbating my asshole tendencies