On one hand it makes sense that medieval european social relations imply, well, medieval european social relations and it makes sense to use your novel (or your show) to examine those.
On the other I can relate to many people wanting to see women in medieval fantasy to be represented in some other way than constant misery porn.
What, are you trying to say people find being covered and surrounded in dirt and shit and garbage unpleasant?
No people just enjoy being caked in mud and shit, visibly so even. Just a natural state of things
I know when I have shit visibly smeared and caked on my skin I find that totally normal and don’t bother trying to clean it off.