• Dingdangdog [he/him,comrade/them]
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    2 years ago

    I'm a large man that sometimes sports a mohawk. I'll be honest I sometimes look like a Batman goon or something.

    I try so hard to not freak people out. I had a lady literally run to her car away from me once because it was night time in a parking lot.

    No idea what to do about it lmao, I feel awful when it happens.

    • AllCatsAreBeautiful [he/him]
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      2 years ago

      Recently I've started calling my girlfriend or another friend and chatting with them til I reach my destination. Alternatively I'll play music on my phone speaker, whistle, do something to make a noticeable amount of noise. Talking with someone is ideal though.

      • MtF_DOOM [she/her,they/them]
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        2 years ago

        Seconding the talking approach. Makes it clear you’re there and can also be reassuring without trying to directly communicate with someone just walking home.