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  • BringMeExtra [xe/xem,fae/faer]
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    2 years ago

    sex is a lot more than just penetration. People really limit themselves by focusing their definition of sex around whether a person with a cock has cum or not.

    Queer sex tends to be more of a vibe. It’s different than porn or whatever. also helps if you are multi-orgasmic (easier if you aren’t a cis dude)

      • BringMeExtra [xe/xem,fae/faer]
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        2 years ago

        Good news! It’s not impossible for cis dudes to be multi-orgasmic. You just need to work on kegels + edging stuff.

        If you look at it as a game, you can learn the rhythms of your body even better. It’s more challenging because cis guys tend to have longer refractory periods and their orgasms have that feeling of “inevitability” that can override a desire to taper back.

        • RNAi [he/him]
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          2 years ago

          You know what's the big fuck8ng problem? The fucking mess of cum everywhere, yeah yeah "it's part of the fun blah blah", it gets really annoying, sometimes I wanna have some sex without having to chage evrything and take a shower afterwards, shower sex is nice yeah but beds are a great thing too

            • RNAi [he/him]
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              2 years ago

              Pineapples are expensive where I live

          • BringMeExtra [xe/xem,fae/faer]
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            2 years ago
            amab trans people on HRT have a cheat code for this

            high levels of t blockers and estradiol lower you cum output to basically zero

            • RNAi [he/him]
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              2 years ago

              I haven't yet tried the soy lecitin & zink trick