Maybe I was an unuseually good kid but most my childhood my parents were nice to em and I just wamted to be nice back. So if they asked me not to do a thing I didn't. But then like, when I did break a rule, I knew I was breaking it. Getting spanked wouldn't have changed my behavior. You can see kids where there is an escalating arms race of punishment and that shit is whack, it doesn't work and it is cruel besides