• silent_water [she/her]
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      2 years ago

      no my pronouns are she/her. being called they/them feels dehumanizing - if you know my pronouns, don’t use the wrong ones intentionally.

      it's something I actually tried for a while as a compromise in early transition and it quite literally made me feel like an alien. it doesn't quite deaden me inside the way he/him does but I'm not any more comfortable with it.

      they/them is routinely used to intentionally misgender binary trans people while protecting plausible deniability. don't be a lib about this.