Just say, "You say I'm not being normal, yet you're policing my actions like some creepy weirdo that's all over my business. Curious." I jest, but seriously, people going around saying "that's not normal" like some cringey hall monitor or wannabe cop is itself a form of abnormality. If they're people who you don't care to have a friendly relationship with (ie not family, friends, or coworkers), use this to your advantage.
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Usually after some missed social cue. Occassionally after i make some obvious bad decision
Just say, "You say I'm not being normal, yet you're policing my actions like some creepy weirdo that's all over my business. Curious." I jest, but seriously, people going around saying "that's not normal" like some cringey hall monitor or wannabe cop is itself a form of abnormality. If they're people who you don't care to have a friendly relationship with (ie not family, friends, or coworkers), use this to your advantage.
it really depends on the missed social cue. Some but not all social norms are in place for good reason