PC gamers in the mid-to-late 90s apparently started turning up their noses at turn-based strategy games in favour of the new hotness of the Command & Conquers and Warcrafts of the day
A review of X-Com Apocalypse from the time:
"to be honest, the new real-time combat is so good I really can't see why anyone would want to play the much slower (and often infuriating) turn-based tactical game"
:kitty-cri-screm:
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That's like preferring Diablo over Fallout
I grew up loving StarCraft but I really dislike base building. The best 1v1 RTS for my money is Wargame: Red Dragon, though it suffers from a tiny playerbase.
I enjoy the base building and macro management myself