A coworker asked me today if I was an empath and I had no idea what that was. I asked her to explain and it was basically “someone who knows what other people are going through.” It’s way off from what I assumed it meant (I thought she said “are you in N-PATH” and I assumed it was a certification program lol). But isn’t this just someone with empathy?

    • MendingBenjamin [they/them]
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      2 years ago

      For them those are major milestones which are a celebration of years of work. For you they are a weekend party with your family. It’s okay to not be overwhelmed with emotion when you weren’t involved in that day to day struggle.

    • Des [she/her, they/them]
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      2 years ago

      probably some kind of neurodiverse because i'm similarly wired. maybe we have weird mirror neurons

    • Sushi_Desires
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      2 years ago

      Sounds to me like you are obviously capable of empathy, but you just don't give a damn about "rites of passage" in the imperial core

    • HumanBehaviorByBjork [any, undecided]
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      2 years ago

      you just don't identify with your family as strongly as you feel socially expected to. that's a function of your relationship with them, not just of your personal psychology in isolation.

    • Bloobish [comrade/them]
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      2 years ago

      Ngl I feel the same way and empathize with animals being given love or elderly individuals learning a cool skill, I enjoy vibing to peeps enjoying life in small moments