I'm surprised how many comments are telling OP to get over it since it was before they dated.
There's also the expected peterson "she's for the streets because blah blah violating femininity" attitudes, but I expected a way more toxic comment section. Of course OP left out context that she didn't cheat on him, just made a video with his friend before they dated.
Most upvoted comments that mention she didn't cheat call out OP for being weird about it. Going up to the friend, asking for the video and watching it is deranged behaviour. Asking him to delete it is one thing, but what the fuck.
The guy is 25 and I feel bad for him being that unprepared for any relationship. Hopefully he grows up, but if he's on the Peterson subreddit asking for advice about something happening before they dated then I don't have much hope.
I think a lot of Peterson guys just really don't understand the subtext of what Canadian Kermit says. Really a condemnation of the education system.
They actually think he's just telling people to clean rooms and we look ridiculous for hating the guy. I've been recommended his videos, and his 10 minute clips sound like decent-but-generic advice, but any dive into what he actually thinks is terrible, or his old TVO public-access clips where he's literally wearing a fedora and complaining about modern masculinity or whatever.
I can back this up, I have a friend like this. Basically grew up very sheltered, has barely even heard the words 'political theory' but is relentlessly curious, compassionate and positive. Loves reading (Even if a lot of it is generic philosophy stuff), likes to toke, and generally if you met him you would just think he was an unassuming, sort-of-naive gym guy. Like many other people, he just found the frogman's basic ,surface-level stuff to be really helpful at a pivotal point in his life and hasn't yet honed his ability to read between the lines. I think guys like him are the perfect cover for the entrance to the pipeline, if you will: not even they know they're covering for anything.
I'm surprised how many comments are telling OP to get over it since it was before they dated.
There's also the expected peterson "she's for the streets because blah blah violating femininity" attitudes, but I expected a way more toxic comment section. Of course OP left out context that she didn't cheat on him, just made a video with his friend before they dated.
Most upvoted comments that mention she didn't cheat call out OP for being weird about it. Going up to the friend, asking for the video and watching it is deranged behaviour. Asking him to delete it is one thing, but what the fuck.
The guy is 25 and I feel bad for him being that unprepared for any relationship. Hopefully he grows up, but if he's on the Peterson subreddit asking for advice about something happening before they dated then I don't have much hope.
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I think a lot of Peterson guys just really don't understand the subtext of what Canadian Kermit says. Really a condemnation of the education system.
They actually think he's just telling people to clean rooms and we look ridiculous for hating the guy. I've been recommended his videos, and his 10 minute clips sound like decent-but-generic advice, but any dive into what he actually thinks is terrible, or his old TVO public-access clips where he's literally wearing a fedora and complaining about modern masculinity or whatever.
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I can back this up, I have a friend like this. Basically grew up very sheltered, has barely even heard the words 'political theory' but is relentlessly curious, compassionate and positive. Loves reading (Even if a lot of it is generic philosophy stuff), likes to toke, and generally if you met him you would just think he was an unassuming, sort-of-naive gym guy. Like many other people, he just found the frogman's basic ,surface-level stuff to be really helpful at a pivotal point in his life and hasn't yet honed his ability to read between the lines. I think guys like him are the perfect cover for the entrance to the pipeline, if you will: not even they know they're covering for anything.