Context for who needs it: this happened before the reddit OP and his "soulmate" were dating. They've only been dating for a month.
Definitely a very stoic and logical manly man to become completely overly attached In less time than it takes to grow a bean sprout
The juxtaposition of "My soul mate" "in high regard" and the waffling about "why God what did I do to deserve this???" with the term "sucked off" is so fucking funny.
Sing muse, my heart is torn asunder. Verily, my bride to be bestowed upon my brother-in-arms a yankjob
I'm surprised how many comments are telling OP to get over it since it was before they dated.
There's also the expected peterson "she's for the streets because blah blah violating femininity" attitudes, but I expected a way more toxic comment section. Of course OP left out context that she didn't cheat on him, just made a video with his friend before they dated.
Most upvoted comments that mention she didn't cheat call out OP for being weird about it. Going up to the friend, asking for the video and watching it is deranged behaviour. Asking him to delete it is one thing, but what the fuck.
The guy is 25 and I feel bad for him being that unprepared for any relationship. Hopefully he grows up, but if he's on the Peterson subreddit asking for advice about something happening before they dated then I don't have much hope.
I think a lot of Peterson guys just really don't understand the subtext of what Canadian Kermit says. Really a condemnation of the education system.
They actually think he's just telling people to clean rooms and we look ridiculous for hating the guy. I've been recommended his videos, and his 10 minute clips sound like decent-but-generic advice, but any dive into what he actually thinks is terrible, or his old TVO public-access clips where he's literally wearing a fedora and complaining about modern masculinity or whatever.
I can back this up, I have a friend like this. Basically grew up very sheltered, has barely even heard the words 'political theory' but is relentlessly curious, compassionate and positive. Loves reading (Even if a lot of it is generic philosophy stuff), likes to toke, and generally if you met him you would just think he was an unassuming, sort-of-naive gym guy. Like many other people, he just found the frogman's basic ,surface-level stuff to be really helpful at a pivotal point in his life and hasn't yet honed his ability to read between the lines. I think guys like him are the perfect cover for the entrance to the pipeline, if you will: not even they know they're covering for anything.
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I am a person who holds honor high
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Yeah this poster is asking for permission from his “honor-based community” to do an honor killing because he has hang ups about his girlfriend needing to be pure and virginal. No I will not explain.
I'm not sure which is a bigger red flag: calling someone your soulmate after a month of dating them or being a jordan peterson fan
letting teenagers post on reddit was a mistake, and in this case, a hilarious one
I don't know why you would find it hard to believe, maybe you're just not terminally online enough to be exposed to worse
I have the videos of it and am watching them, ...
You... you didn't need to see anything. She already told you that she did stuff, you didn't need go out and watch it.
"This person is my soulmate and I decided this without ever going on a single date with her, which means I am possessive enough to get twisted up into knots over them having sex with another person"