oh man… That would basically force me to buy it. I don’t handle threats well lol.

if you're at this stage of a relationship, it's fucking over. you're doing fucking mind games to spite your partner. just fucking leave because you clearly cannot work this out in the open, and everything past that breach of trust will just be further and further of a rift. you will be happier in the long term if you do. option two is that you turn into a hate my wife guy.