autocorrect keeps wanting to make it "envy," which isn't entirely wrong
How did you figure out you were enby?
I've come to realize that my super-femme presentation is a form of masking, and I'm trying to figure out where I actually fall in the spectrum of gender.
So yeah, how did you figure out you weren't "gender" and were actually enby?
Does just thinking that maybe I'm not either mean that probably I'm not either? Is the state of being unsure and kinda in-between where you identify or what?
Hasn't really raised with much gendered expectations within the home (of course in public was a different issue). Not sure if that contributes to it, but gender has long been confusing to me and can sometimes be something I forget exists (like one time I went on the bus when the girls were supposed change first and I just forgot that would be a gendered activity and only realized my mistake when someone else called me out for being there). Identifying as either man or woman just seems weird. Can't say I remember ever really associating with a specific gender.