this is something I've been trying to understand for a while

What does it mean to "do your best"?

Are you legitimately always trying to do your best, or are you often titrating your effort based on your internal reserves?

What does "your best" mean to you?

  • invo_rt [he/him]
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    2 months ago

    I can understand the confusion. I treat "do your best" as an idiom rather than an imperative. I think it's usually said in one of two contexts: (1) as a platitude similar to "good luck" or (2) as a response to the expectation of a subpar result. In the former, it could be a friend hyping me up before riding in a cycling race. The latter could be me telling my boss that we're going to miss a deadline and they respond with that to tacitly tell me to finish it as soon as possible.

    To your second question, it's the latter. In my job, I work with a lot of print and I'm often juggling dozens of print assets at once. I'm always "doing my best" because my livelihood depends on it, but how much effort I put in to each project varies. If it's a small project where we're scraping pennies, I'm more inclined to let small imperfections slide. If it's a major project, I'm nitpicking everything. Obviously, I want everything to be good, but I have to triage my efforts and I'm expected to do so.

    To me, "doing my best" isn't about perfection so much as maximizing results with as much effort as I have to give. If putting in x effort gets me 90% of the way to perfection, but 2x effort would get me to 95%, I'm inclined to stop at 90% unless perfection is needed or desired. How I quantify that percentage varies from task to task. If I'm painting a miniature, I may want to push for that 100% and truly do my best even though I'm going to be spending a lot of time on tiny details. If I'm vacuuming, maybe I don't feel like moving all the furniture and something like 80% is my best. It's all relative.