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My girlfriend and I have been talking about entering an open relationship the last 3 years. We’ve been together for 6 and had our ups and downs but we’ve been really solid the last two years. We love each other and I say our relationship is strong.

The last week, we’ve been laying ground rules for potentially opening up our relationship. We want to keep it very casual with other people.

Anyone willing to share their experience both good or bad?

  • SadStruggle92 [none/use name]
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    2 years ago

    we weren’t “unicorn hunters”

    :brow:

    Edit: More specifically, what the hell does that mean?

    • Lerios [hy/hym]
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      2 years ago

      its a term for het couples looking for a bi girl (or occasionally a lesbian, by not mentioning the boyfriend for a while) to be a purely sexual non-committal third person in their relationship. they are (or were) unfortunately common on wlw tinder

    • UlyssesT
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      15 days ago

      deleted by creator

    • GaveUp [she/her]
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      2 years ago

      Unicorns are the third to a couple and in bed, straps a dildo to their head (like a unicorn's horn, thus the name) to penetrate the couple

    • UnicodeHamSic [he/him]
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      2 years ago

      It refers to the tendency of emotionally unprepared couples to want a "third" as an emptionally unattached single female they can use as a toy. Becuase of the rarity of this working they are called unicorns.

      It is very cis/het and useually invalidates multiple people's feelings before falling appart badly.

    • Des [she/her, they/them]
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      2 years ago

      sorry for late reply. "unicorn hunters" are those cringe usually cishet couples looking for a bisexual woman not to create a meaningful relationship but just to basically have someone to sexually exploit. the unicorn is this woman that doesn't exist in the real world.