IDK this whole men on this site need advice thing has convinced me that people here really think this isn't a safe place to ask questions about how to, IDK, be?. So ask them here I guess if you didn't ask them in the other thread.
I'm drunk and going to sleep now, but I have the day off tomorrow and will sincerely commit to effort-posting responses if anyone has genuine questions they want some in depth advice to.
I will say I'm just a guy who thinks he has enough trips around the sun to have some insight to share but I am not an authority on anything, so anyone else please feel free to chime in
Ya I wanted to say something similar. Although my parents are working class, I benefitted heavily by being born 40+ years ago, white, male, and with a stable-ish family. I don't want to shit on the OP, but possibly comrades here struggle and I don't want anyone to feel like they're at fault.