I don't think she was cheating, but our relationship was riddled with asymmetries. I knew she was bi and wanted to be closer to this woman she had been in kind of a tumultuous but brief relationship with in the past. I trusted her, I told her I wanted her to be happy and feel fulfilled, and so if she wanted to be ENM and be intimate with this woman, I supported her 100%. In the 4 years we dated, she never even introduced me to this person (lmao). I actually can't believe how stupid all of this feels now. I just thought I was doing the right thing for her, now I just feel like a chump.

This isn't even the fucking person she's going on a date with right now, btw, who is apparently some guy she met on Hinge last week. Like... god fucking damn.