So I've been talking to a nice attractive lady and we've been flirting on and off and setting up a time to get together at her place , now I'm not stupid so with a hangout like that and the way we've been flirting I knew sex or something akin was in the cards. Then she says she wants to start an onlyfans and said we should try and make a vid (and that she's never done it before) and I thought :wut: at first and then said yes and played it off. She also seems to be open to something more then a hookup cause she still talks about wanting to get to know each other more and maybe have something so you can imagine why I was a little surprised.

I'm not judgmental and not totally opposed to the idea (don't want this to be any sort of struggle sessions/debate about onlyfans and sex work please). To be honest though I'm a little worried about "performing" with this new pressure 😅. Any advice ? If I like this person and don't just want sex should I say we should wait? Anyone have a similar experience? Part of me wonders why I'm even posting this but yeah what ya'll think Hex users 🤐.

  • TheLegendaryCarrot23 [he/him]
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    1 year ago

    Wow my dude this was great advice all around!! Your definitely right probably won't be seen by many and even if it is now thinking about it I don't really mind I'm still pretty young too. And reading that second paragraph makes feel much more relaxed . Your right to put it simply I should just go with the flow not build it up even if it doesn't go totally smoothly I'd regret not taking the chance even more. (And you are definitely right when I have watched amateur porn it's always better when you can see some real mutual affection/attraction)

    I didn't have any expectations but again genuinely helped put my mind at ease. Thanks yo!

    • JoeByeThen [he/him, they/them]
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      1 year ago

      Oh, and if y'all do wanna kinda hide your faces until you're sure about it, those lacy masks are pretty hot. And there's plenty of other themes (like superheros or something) that can hide your face without people feeling like they're about to watch :ira: unless that's your thing.😉

      • TheLegendaryCarrot23 [he/him]
        hexagon
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        1 year ago

        Haha well somebody's clearly been around the block 😆! Honestly masks can be hot though ,maybe I'll ask and see if I can be spiderman masked lol .

        • JoeByeThen [he/him, they/them]
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          1 year ago

          When I was younger I ran a bunch of small feeder sites for bigger affiliates and made a couple vids that floated around for a while. Thought about dipping my toe in the OF water, but then covid happened and I think I'm just gonna work on my tan for a bit.

          I've got a full body spiderman from aliexpress that may have featured in some of my plans.