So I've been talking to a nice attractive lady and we've been flirting on and off and setting up a time to get together at her place , now I'm not stupid so with a hangout like that and the way we've been flirting I knew sex or something akin was in the cards. Then she says she wants to start an onlyfans and said we should try and make a vid (and that she's never done it before) and I thought :wut: at first and then said yes and played it off. She also seems to be open to something more then a hookup cause she still talks about wanting to get to know each other more and maybe have something so you can imagine why I was a little surprised.
I'm not judgmental and not totally opposed to the idea (don't want this to be any sort of struggle sessions/debate about onlyfans and sex work please). To be honest though I'm a little worried about "performing" with this new pressure 😅. Any advice ? If I like this person and don't just want sex should I say we should wait? Anyone have a similar experience? Part of me wonders why I'm even posting this but yeah what ya'll think Hex users 🤐.
She clearly needs the money but it's still funny that she wants to get to know you better after starting a sex-broadcasting business with you.
Or maybe she has been doing it for a long time, but fears you'll reject it for it so she says "what if we do OF, never tried it tho, and maybe have a second date too"
In any case, use a mask
Yeah she mentioned that she is doing to make extra money cause her job is part time rn so def think it could be a cash strapped thing, and every other female cis or trans has an onlyfans now so eh I see the logic. I'm still nervous of course but she's older and has her own place so seems well put together , no big red flags.
Being honest though I highly doubt I'd do this on the reg. If we do like each other as people and try to be together I'd communicate that I don't wanna do a bunch of vids . That could be a deal breaker hypothetically but I'm not gonna over think a future that might not come to pass lol. Like most guys around my age its rare for me to get dates with independent mature calm women (I'm quite introverted and she claims she is not a partier and all that.)