So I've been talking to a nice attractive lady and we've been flirting on and off and setting up a time to get together at her place , now I'm not stupid so with a hangout like that and the way we've been flirting I knew sex or something akin was in the cards. Then she says she wants to start an onlyfans and said we should try and make a vid (and that she's never done it before) and I thought :wut: at first and then said yes and played it off. She also seems to be open to something more then a hookup cause she still talks about wanting to get to know each other more and maybe have something so you can imagine why I was a little surprised.
I'm not judgmental and not totally opposed to the idea (don't want this to be any sort of struggle sessions/debate about onlyfans and sex work please). To be honest though I'm a little worried about "performing" with this new pressure 😅. Any advice ? If I like this person and don't just want sex should I say we should wait? Anyone have a similar experience? Part of me wonders why I'm even posting this but yeah what ya'll think Hex users 🤐.
Yeah just think things though first and all that, and have fun. And all the other advice I'd give is the same as I'd give for having casual sex, and sex in general. Use protection/get an STI test, enthusiastic consent from both you and your partner is always critically important. Remember that you can revoke consent at any time if you feel uncomfortable, or for whatever reason. And so can your partner, so respect that too. And enjoy it.
Also you mentioned in another comment that this person is an older women, just make sure you're comfortable with the age gap and the dynamics from that.
I am and thank you for being so mature and real with that advice, remembering the rules and dynamics of consent and age is so important .
Again thanks for the advice was like a warm blanket
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