So I've been talking to a nice attractive lady and we've been flirting on and off and setting up a time to get together at her place , now I'm not stupid so with a hangout like that and the way we've been flirting I knew sex or something akin was in the cards. Then she says she wants to start an onlyfans and said we should try and make a vid (and that she's never done it before) and I thought :wut: at first and then said yes and played it off. She also seems to be open to something more then a hookup cause she still talks about wanting to get to know each other more and maybe have something so you can imagine why I was a little surprised.
I'm not judgmental and not totally opposed to the idea (don't want this to be any sort of struggle sessions/debate about onlyfans and sex work please). To be honest though I'm a little worried about "performing" with this new pressure 😅. Any advice ? If I like this person and don't just want sex should I say we should wait? Anyone have a similar experience? Part of me wonders why I'm even posting this but yeah what ya'll think Hex users 🤐.
I'm not saying don't do it. I'm just saying get to know her a bit better. a month just feels super fast to me to take that kind of plunge
also it's not a desert out there. if this attractive, independent Columbian woman wants you, there are also plenty of women who will want you. believe in yourself. cringe and cliche but important nonetheless
Death to America
Thanks boss. Look you may be right but I personally feel like a month is long enough, like I've had casual sex with people I've known much less(not bragging it's often meh). and your totally right shouldn't pretend like there isn't a sea full of fish, and I go for cis an trans too so hey that's numbers lol. I'm gonna be very casual bout this thing with this person and I do take your advice to heart.
Inshallah Death To America.