So I've been talking to a nice attractive lady and we've been flirting on and off and setting up a time to get together at her place , now I'm not stupid so with a hangout like that and the way we've been flirting I knew sex or something akin was in the cards. Then she says she wants to start an onlyfans and said we should try and make a vid (and that she's never done it before) and I thought :wut: at first and then said yes and played it off. She also seems to be open to something more then a hookup cause she still talks about wanting to get to know each other more and maybe have something so you can imagine why I was a little surprised.
I'm not judgmental and not totally opposed to the idea (don't want this to be any sort of struggle sessions/debate about onlyfans and sex work please). To be honest though I'm a little worried about "performing" with this new pressure 😅. Any advice ? If I like this person and don't just want sex should I say we should wait? Anyone have a similar experience? Part of me wonders why I'm even posting this but yeah what ya'll think Hex users 🤐.
i know you're a dude and it's not as big of a concern but i'll say it anyway: make sure someone knows where you're going and that you're going to be putting yourself into a vulnerable situation . just in case.
Honestly it doesn't make a difference in basically any other way (hence why I didn't mention it) but its a trans women not cis which I feel like makes that sort of thing less likely (could be off base).
But anyways you are correct, hey 0.01% chance I get murked (lol) but I'll let my bro know I'm out and roughly where , thanks for the advice (: .
it never hurts to be safe! that said, i do think you're probably right in that regard.
however you end up handling it, i hope you enjoy yourself!