lowkey it is pretty irksome that not many women post their post-op vag many years after surgery. i find that information far more valuable. the ones ive seen, especially the ones with tattoos over scars or pubic hair plugs into the scars, and had years to heal, look exactly like any vag
but you kinda gotta wade through a sea of gore to find any of that. i really do not understand the ladies that post their gored up bits, it provides no useful info
I was open to posting 1 year+ pics leading up to my surgery, but just posting to r/transgender_surgeries for advice and to talk about things during recovery already got me weird replies, DMs, and people suddenly following me on reddit. unfortunately, no amount of wanting to be helpful will get me to subject myself to that.
yeah im gonna post anonymized pics at some point to somewhere, not sure if itll be reddit or not, so that people can get an idea of what a fully healed one looks like. its pretty well known that chasers and terfs love browsing the surgery subreddits for their new material. but if it has the chance of helping someone im down with chasers looking at my hoo-ha i guess :shrug-outta-hecks:
I would like to find a way to share how things have healed for me, so maybe I'll give it more thought. It's really shitty how much we have to consider just to be helpful
lowkey it is pretty irksome that not many women post their post-op vag many years after surgery. i find that information far more valuable. the ones ive seen, especially the ones with tattoos over scars or pubic hair plugs into the scars, and had years to heal, look exactly like any vag
but you kinda gotta wade through a sea of gore to find any of that. i really do not understand the ladies that post their gored up bits, it provides no useful info
I was open to posting 1 year+ pics leading up to my surgery, but just posting to r/transgender_surgeries for advice and to talk about things during recovery already got me weird replies, DMs, and people suddenly following me on reddit. unfortunately, no amount of wanting to be helpful will get me to subject myself to that.
yeah im gonna post anonymized pics at some point to somewhere, not sure if itll be reddit or not, so that people can get an idea of what a fully healed one looks like. its pretty well known that chasers and terfs love browsing the surgery subreddits for their new material. but if it has the chance of helping someone im down with chasers looking at my hoo-ha i guess :shrug-outta-hecks:
I would like to find a way to share how things have healed for me, so maybe I'll give it more thought. It's really shitty how much we have to consider just to be helpful